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Too Loud, Lily!

by Zoey @ Good Googs on August 19, 2010

“Too Loud, Lily!”

That’s what Riley says every time she hears a loud noise, while covering her ears with her hands. It’s from a book she has where a rhinoceros (Lily) is too loud for everyone and they keep saying ‘Too Loud, Lily!’ Anyway, it’s stuck. It doesn’t seem to apply to her being loud. But she is extremely sensitive to the sounds of the front door opening ‘Scary!’, the sound of the blender/coffee machine ‘noisy!’, the vacuum cleaner ‘too loud!’ and even to light and dark.

Josh took her to the Reptile Park a few weeks ago and apparently, despite her enthusiasm for snakes, she refused to go into any of the inside areas ‘it’s dark in there!’. She says the same thing everytime we go into the car park. And even the light on in the bathroom in the morning is enough to wake her up.

She becomes distressed when a toy (or a person) won’t be quiet, once she has expressed her wish for them to be so. If a harsh ‘shhh!’ doesn’t work with a toy a tantrum often ensues. And if it’s a person, the shhh! just becomes more and more insistent and she becomes more and more anxious. It’s the same with hearing babies or children cry. She can hear a cry from what seems like a mile away.

It’s hard to say how much of it is actual sensitivity and how much of it is normal toddler stuff. Because, well, I only have one toddler so I don’t really have a point of reference. It does go the other way too, as sensitive as she is to sensory stimulation, she also really enjoys it. So there’s nothing she loves more than a belly rub at bedtime. Or a scalp massage, or a light tickle on her hands.

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  • http://www.google.com/s2/profiles/115699629849490303516 Ashleigh

    Can I borrow Riley to come and say “Too Loud Will!” ?

    • http://goodgoog.com Zoey @ Good Goog

      I’ll get her practicing!

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/12932508388869573748 Megan

    I love that a toddler’s world revolves around them and only them. If I want quiet, you must be quiet. If I want noise, there shall be noise. If I’m awake, you must be too.

    Although, when I say I love it, I mean I love it sometimes… ;)

    • http://goodgoog.com Zoey @ Good Goog

      Yeah, me too! This morning I was told by Riley that I was ‘cranky’. My response: ‘do you think that has something to do with the fact that you just hit me?’

  • http://maxabellaloves.blogspot.com Maxabella

    My oldest was / is super-sensitive to sound. He is a sensitive kid in general and has grown less afraid as he’s gotten older (he’s 6 now). When he was a toddler we lived under the flight path at Stanmore… did not help!!

    She’s so cute there with her little gloves on. She’ll be okay.

    • http://goodgoog.com Zoey @ Good Goog

      I used to work under that flight path – must have been brutal for a little one!

  • http://www.unlikelymama.net Amber

    I’m the same way, seriously overly sensitive to noise. High pitched ones drive me the most crazy. But like Riley, I love a good head rub before bed. I wish I could yell at people to be quiet sometimes! I love Riley so much. We’re kindred spirits <3

    • http://goodgoog.com Zoey @ Good Goog

      Now if we could just get you into the southern hemisphere . . .

      • http://www.unlikelymama.net Amber

        Will you be my mommy if I come? Had one of those run-away moments the last few days. Thought maybe Josh would like a fully grown daughter as well :P

        • http://goodgoog.com Zoey @ Good Goog

          You’re always welcome ;-)

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